The guilt of a failure.

Failure is one of the worst feelings that a man can get.We have to deal with many failures in our lives.But there is one thing that we should always keep in mind-GOOD TIME AND BAD TIME COMES EQUALY IN EVERYONE'S LIFE. BUT THE THING THAT MAKES THE DIFFERENCE IS HOW YOY DEAL WITH IT.

Often after a failure we break down.That is natural.But we must learn to cope up with it and move on in our lives.

So how does a failure feel?
1.The heart feels heavy.
2.You either blame yourself or you blame your luck or you blame somebody else.
3.You feel dissapointed with yourself.You feel as if you are struck in life and there is no way out.
4.People tend to taunt you and make you feel worse.Very few people try to comfort you.

Now,how to deal with this failure?
1.Blame nobody else but only yourself for the failure.it is hard to do so ,but once  you realise your mistake its easy to make the corrections.
2.Work harder,innovate and don't give up.
3.Don't try to become successful ,try to become a person who deserves success.
4.Read inspirational quotes,paragraphs ,books or watch inspirational films.Keep yourself motivated all the time.
5.Feel the competition,you have to compete with several people to achieve success.So work harder.

                                      Amount of hard work is directly proportional to the amount of success.

So work hard. :)

The difference between toppers and average students-The Thinking.

Everybody wants to  be a  topper, but the truth is that only 3 or 4 students in a class manage to score realy realy well.But then ,what about the rest of the class?does it mean that only few students are blessed with all the luck and others are just ,well..Average?The truth is that almost everybody can become toppers ,if only they want.A very strange but true fact is that average students think that they can score good marks with even very less amounts of studying while toppers no matter how hard they  have studied always feel that they can never compete with anyone because they are not capable of it.Most of the average students are a bit over-confident about themselves,this leads to the fall down.

Toppers deserve the spot they are in because they have worked realy hard for it.Most of the toppers will never tell you how many hours they study everyday .But the truth is that they study for more than 8 hours daily.

Nothing can be achieved without hardwork because there are no shortcuts to success.

Amazing book-"Our Iceberg Is Melting"

Recently I came across an award winning book-Our Icebrg Is Melting.I didn't buy that book  like I had bought many other popular books.I got it as a gift.And I must say that its a very magnificent book with wonderful charecters.The penguins in this book are adorable and cute.The book teaches us about the changing climatic conditions in a very easy and clearly understandable language.There isn't a single part in this book where one can get bored.I am not  a very ardent reader, But I was simply glued to this book.Its worth its popularity.The artwork on is book is also awesome.So if you still haven't read it, then please go for it.You will love it.

The use,effects and harms of ONLINE CHATTING

Online chatting is one of the main things for which people use the internet.Most of the people who use the computer are on social networking sites.Although chatting is fun and relaxing to most of  us, it does,however have some harmful effects too, that many of us fail to recognise! So given below are some uses and harms of online chatting.

Uses-
1.It helps to avoid loneliness.
2.We meet various types of people online and in this process sometimes find realy good friends too.
3.People who are shy open up amazingly on the net.

Harms-
1.There are fake people,pretenders and characterless people all over the net.They can lead you into trouble.
2.Your account just might get hacked,and you can either do nothing about it or you have to take extreme measures to get back your account ,like calling the cyber police of your country.
3.You might get shocked and have to face sadness for many days when people treat you ridiculously or talk about such  topics which lead you into a mental shock.Believe me,its true !!
4.You might be getting stalked .Its very easy to create a fake account .Its hard to recognise those accounts.So beware of people who are total strangers but still act as if they are your friends.
5.One of the most important problems of these sites is  getting addicted to it.Some people check these chat sites about 20 times a day.This might not seem like a problem,but this is a great distraction from  many worthwhile and important works.

Online chatting and social networking sites do release us from a tensed atmosphere in the real world.But there comes a time in everybody's life ,when they realise that they hardly know most of the people in their friendlists.You do get to meet your old lost pals on such sites.But think twice before you make a total stranger your best friend.