Things to do when you are in a new relationship for 18-24 year olds

Things to do when you are in a new relationship for 18-24 year olds

First of all let us know a few things about new relationships at this stage ; this is one of the best phases of a relationship and this is where you lay the foundation. Within the first three months you’ll realize whether you would like to know this person and stay with this person for longer or if he is not your type. Be fun and make most of the romantic dates that you go on to because this phase is never coming back and the memories of this part will haunt you for a long long time. Try your best to bring out the natural prettiness in you. Know that he will remember it just as much as you will remember it. Here are a few tips to enjoy it better

• Don’t be the needy girl in the first place. Sure, you will end up there eventually every  once in a while ,but not in this phase. This face is for you to act cool ,to act like the Diva you are and just to be yourself.
• Give him little pieces of information little fun stories from your childhood or Adventures that took place but be careful don’t overindulge in telling him about the private sexy things that you did in your past.
• You can get to know a lot about his past details if you give the right pieces of information about yourself. For example tell him about that huge crush you had on someone or tell him about your teenage love stories so that he can come out of his closet and share his secrets. Yeah, I know you can be jealous later on but then it’s best for you to know about his past right now. People tend to hide stuff later on so that they don’t lose each other.
•  Show him your strong and positive sides show. If you have become committed then show him your skills. Bake tasty treats or give him a funny card handmade by you.
•  Buy good lingerie and make an effort in bed cause the first time you try but things together is fun .

Lastly be yourself if you have values which you don’t wanna compromise and if the situation requires you to,
Be who you are (and I bet you are awesome and fabulous and magical ) and don’t rush it too much. Don’t think about the future too much if it is meant to be it will be and you actually have nothing to lose.

then think about yourself and be wise.

One Day,you will make Dreams Come True.

For those who believe, Dreams Come True. 

In life , I am sure you dream about certain things you love. We can't  blame ourselves for dreaming, for its those dreams of ours that keeps us alive. Human beings are not entirely made of external aspects. They have this lovely thing called spirit that keeps us going.We should keep on dreaming, striving to make them turn into reality. Children are given a number of responsibilities, we were taught how we should be living our lives, we were taught practicality. Thinking in the long run, this is our life ,we should try to be something that appeals to us more than anything else.How are we going to do that? We can make the following moves:

1.Keep the fire alive in our hearts -  You have wished something for yourself, you should respect yourself and try to achieve it. There are so many things in the world that our hearts beat for, keeping the focus on only one is not easy. You do not want to go that way.
2.Give it time- Give it time, and you won't be able to go anywhere. Everything needs constant and daily attention. It is the first thing that we should do when we decide to make our dreams come true. Time is a different dimension and it can take us to amazing places.
3.Be just a little bit practical- Find the madness, Find the cure-Everything is good up to a certain limit. When things cross that line or limit, it gets difficult. We must absolutely keep everything in mind while working. It is not as hard as it seems to be. It defies the other things that I have said previously, but hey, it won't harm you and will definitely prove to be a good decision.
4.Have the confidence- Know this little fact, confidence comes from within, if you have it in yourself, you have already stepped on the winning boat. On the way, there are certain situations you will have to cope with. You may lose your mind. You may find that the faith that you had in yourself is fading. Keeping faith is the only challenge we have in front of us. Once we get determined and focused , we get the energy. We make friends with the universe and we find that it is acting like a spring for us.It is  hard to maintain the enthusiasm that we had when we were beginning something. You should remember that nothing good comes easy. Don't be afraid of choosing what you want for yourself. Life does not work the other way. Certain things are to be kept in our minds before we make the leap. We should be having a practical approach at everything we try. If it is against our morals, I suggest that you should viscously reconsider doing it. Do it if you are absolutely sure that is what you want. Finally, be patient, because good things come to those who wait.

5.Maintain your determination-

Not easy, never hard- By doing something good for yourself, you inspire and amaze others.The bigger the goal, the better the journey. Life isn't always sunny , it isn't always fun. This post was not written by someone who was depressed. It was written by someone who is struggling to complete her aim, who loves everything that was given to her, believes in god and is grateful for every little thing that he has given to her. She prays that no one gives up on their purposes. Keep the faith, Dreams Come True.

The guilt of a failure.

Failure is one of the worst feelings that a man can get.We have to deal with many failures in our lives.But there is one thing that we should always keep in mind-GOOD TIME AND BAD TIME COMES EQUALY IN EVERYONE'S LIFE. BUT THE THING THAT MAKES THE DIFFERENCE IS HOW YOY DEAL WITH IT.

Often after a failure we break down.That is natural.But we must learn to cope up with it and move on in our lives.

So how does a failure feel?
1.The heart feels heavy.
2.You either blame yourself or you blame your luck or you blame somebody else.
3.You feel dissapointed with yourself.You feel as if you are struck in life and there is no way out.
4.People tend to taunt you and make you feel worse.Very few people try to comfort you.

Now,how to deal with this failure?
1.Blame nobody else but only yourself for the failure.it is hard to do so ,but once  you realise your mistake its easy to make the corrections.
2.Work harder,innovate and don't give up.
3.Don't try to become successful ,try to become a person who deserves success.
4.Read inspirational quotes,paragraphs ,books or watch inspirational films.Keep yourself motivated all the time.
5.Feel the competition,you have to compete with several people to achieve success.So work harder.

                                      Amount of hard work is directly proportional to the amount of success.

So work hard. :)

The difference between toppers and average students-The Thinking.

Everybody wants to  be a  topper, but the truth is that only 3 or 4 students in a class manage to score realy realy well.But then ,what about the rest of the class?does it mean that only few students are blessed with all the luck and others are just ,well..Average?The truth is that almost everybody can become toppers ,if only they want.A very strange but true fact is that average students think that they can score good marks with even very less amounts of studying while toppers no matter how hard they  have studied always feel that they can never compete with anyone because they are not capable of it.Most of the average students are a bit over-confident about themselves,this leads to the fall down.

Toppers deserve the spot they are in because they have worked realy hard for it.Most of the toppers will never tell you how many hours they study everyday .But the truth is that they study for more than 8 hours daily.

Nothing can be achieved without hardwork because there are no shortcuts to success.

Amazing book-"Our Iceberg Is Melting"

Recently I came across an award winning book-Our Icebrg Is Melting.I didn't buy that book  like I had bought many other popular books.I got it as a gift.And I must say that its a very magnificent book with wonderful charecters.The penguins in this book are adorable and cute.The book teaches us about the changing climatic conditions in a very easy and clearly understandable language.There isn't a single part in this book where one can get bored.I am not  a very ardent reader, But I was simply glued to this book.Its worth its popularity.The artwork on is book is also awesome.So if you still haven't read it, then please go for it.You will love it.